fellatio

Licking and sucking a penis, a blowjob or cock sucking, is a way of kissing. It is one of the best liked sexual techniques, which has the great advantage that it cannot cause pregnancy.

Blowjob; start gently

The first time you perform fellatio is probably a bit scary, so prepare for that by familiarizing yourself with his body beforehand. It is important to start gently and carefully, use plenty of saliva. Hold the penis in your hand and give kisses with a relaxed wet mouth, moisten the top. When it is small you can see him grow while you are doing this, into an erected penis.

Blowjob; technique

If the boy is not circumcised, gently lower the foreskin. Pay attention to a litle muscle called ‘frenulum’, the most sensitive area under the glans (head) where it is attached to the shaft of the penis. Sometimes on the tight side. Remember to keep plenty of saliva round your tongue and lips. Lick that spot  gently and humidly with the tip of your tongue, alternating in tempo, over het head and back again. If you take it in your mouth, be careful with your teeth. If you take it in and out of your mouth, with long slow or short rapid movements, you can keep the forskin down so that the glans is exposed, or you move the forskin all the way up as long as you make sure you wett it well. You can move with your hand around his cock at the same rate of your mouth. Alternate this with licking or biting (with lips coverd teeth). Do not forget his balls, you can gently massage and lick them or take them in your mouth and tease with you tongue. Gently press against the little hole (anus) and insert carefully with a wet finger.

Blowjob; say what you like

In fellatio there should be no violent or monotonous blind movement on your part, but conscious, pleasure-giving motion with some variety, just covering the glans and coming up and then coming down all the way as far as you feel comfortable. Keep communication going, touch and caress him, exchange signals of pleasure, ask him if you are doing it right. If you do not know what pleasure signals to look for, just ask the boy whether he enjoys what you are doing. Maybe he has a special request and can give you instructions. The other way around; if somenone sucks you, tell her/him what you prefer. You might asssume that boys know better than girls how to suck but that is not the case.

Blowjob; cumming

Because of the excitement the penis gets bigger and harder. When a boy almost cums the penis is just a little bit harder. When he reaches the climax, a second later he will ejaculate, so you have time to move your head aside. After sufficient experience with fellatio, under safe conditions, and if you like to try it, you can let him come inside your mouth. You can decide to swallow the semen or hold it in your mouth and then let it flow from your mouth onto his belly or leg. Have a tissue or handkerchief at hand to wipe. It happens quite often that orgasm does not occur even though he enjoys it immensly. Because ejaculation is just a little too far for him or because he has some difficilty with the passive role in the fellatio.

Blowjob; hygiene

The kissed must ensure that it is comfortabel and that there is enough room to move for the kisser. Provide good hygiene beforehand (down to the smallest corner under the foreskin), it is better to kiss a clean person. Too much hair might not be very appealing, maybe tickly. When he cums you have the time to put your mouth aside, but you can also take a sip of water. Sperm is protein and not unhealthy or dirty in taste. Being really careful, you can use condoms with a taste. For the a bit more adventurous you might pamper the boy with whipped cream or honey to make it tastier. This way of fellatio has a big advantage; no one has ever become pregnant.